It's the only thing that feels better than diving into a cool lake on a sweltering day, biting into a juicy cheeseburger when you're starving, or even getting your wallet back after losing it on vacation abroad. An orgasm is that good. Which is why it bites that it doesn't happen more often. According to several major surveys, only 25 percent of women always climax during sex with a partner. The rest of us either hit — or miss — depending on the night, or never experience a female orgasm during intercourse at all.
Everyone wants that! Sit in a chair and have your partner put two fingers on either side of your clitoris, scissoring their fingers together while gently licking or sucking the tip of your clit. Not only does this allow for deeper penetration, but you can have them knead or spank your butt for improved orgasm. Bouncing off your partner can create a feeling that some women find to be super intense in a good way, obvs and leaves the external part of your clit exposed and ready to be stroked with a finger or toy, adds Steinberg.
Especially if you want to orgasm during penetration. A recent study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that women only orgasm There are numerous other studies and stats out there about the female orgasm struggle, and the numbers vary depending on the sample and the decade in which the research occurred.
The celebration of all things self-love comes around every year to highlight why we should make ourselves climax more often. Previously, we have explored the unexpected benefits of masturbation , such as whether it can boost your immune system and what women think about when they are getting themselves off. For instance, you could try the Lelo Tiani 3 , which lets you penetrate, vibrate and control the sensations with a remote control. Or hand the remote over to your self-isolation partner, if you have one, and just lie back and enjoy.