Whether you participate in oral sex as foreplay before penetrative sex, or as the main event in your sexual adventure, it can be an incredibly satisfying and pleasurable act to engage in with your partner. How do you tell your partner what you like? With a few simple tips, however, you can master the oral sex game. Ahead, we lay out a handful of tips that will turn any sack session into a fun, and steamy, experience. Yes, even oral sex. So no pushing heads down and no begging.
10 Oral Sex Tips to Make It More Enjoyable for Everyone
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Years ago, I was having lunch with a woman who would eventually become one of my closest friends. To say she and I had great ease in talking about sex in our marriages would be an understatement. To this day, she is a confidante who I know will always be up for a transparent and authentic conversation about sexual struggles and sexual joys. I know there are many wives out there who have never given oral sex to their husband, or if they have, they do not enjoy it.
Receiving oral sex is pretty much the best thing ever. But between worrying about how you taste and what he's seeing down there, sometimes…it's hard to relax and just go with it. Oral sex is a pretty intimate act—his face is all up in your vag, after all. So, maybe hold off until you're completely comfortable with him.
Do you have a partner who is adorably compact compared to you or crane-your-neck taller? Height differences can be a slight obstacle to navigate in the bedroom — especially when you and your partner are playing with more pronounced distance. But, real talk: when have you ever seen a short girl let height get in her way? But one of the most fun parts of exploring new positions with your partner is experimentation and finding the ones that sing to your particular bodies, moods and tastes. First of all, riding is fun and taking on a top-side position is a great way to remove height obstacles and give a shorter partner a bit of control and power.